"I am in agony in these flames..."
“There was a rich man who was dressed in
purple and fine linen and who feasted sumptuously everyday. And at his gate lay
a poor man named Lazarus, covered with sores, who longed to satisfy his hunger
with what fell from the rich man’s table; even the dogs would come and lick his
sores. The poor man died and was carried away by the angels to be with Abraham.
The rich man also died and was buried. In Hades, where he was being tormented,
he looked up and saw Abraham far away with Lazarus by his side. He called out,
‘Father Abraham, have mercy on me, and send Lazarus to dip the tip of his finger
in water and cool my tongue; for I am in agony in these flames.’ But Abraham
said, ‘Child, remember that during your lifetime you received your good things,
and Lazarus in like manner evil things; but now he is comforted here, and you
are in agony. Besides all this, between you and us a great chasm has been fixed,
so that those who might want to pass from here to you cannot do so, and no one
can cross from there to us.’”
The combination of…two forces–the drive for happiness in the form of security and survival, affection and esteem, and power and control, and overidentification with the particular group to which we belong–greatly complicates our emotional programs for happiness. In our younger days, this development is normal. As adults, activity arising from such motivation is childish…Without facing…early childhood excesses and trying to dismantle or moderate them, …they continue to exert enormous influence throughout life…The distortion of human nature becomes habitual and is supported, like the Sufi master’s disciples, by others who are doing the same thing–trying to find happiness where it cannot possibly be found.
~Thomas Keating, The Human Condition, pp 15-16.
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